Lately I have been smoking hopium.
Smoking hopium is always wishing and hoping that something different will happen even though I keep doing the same thing.
Like telling myself I am going to write a book. Yet every day, I do everything but anything related to writing the next chapter. I am addicted to hoping and wishing.
As in any addiction, I have to change my behavior to change my outcome. And I have to get off dead center and move toward my goal.
Advice to Fay:
Put away the hookah. Be honest with yourself. Identify the self-sabotaging behaviors in your life. List them. Then list what you are going to do differently, starting today, to change your behavior. Take action on your list. Change your behavior, change your life.
No more smoking hopium.